Knitting Night = Success!

Tonight I went bravely to a knitting group night with a lady named Susanne.  I had no idea what to expect in terms of levels of handicraft or in terms of conversation.

Finns are generally quiet people and can not talk for long stretches at a time.  This is a little "strange" for me as I talk A LOT.  I'm a Canadian, a "Maritimer" and overall a sociable person.  My nerves were getting to me - to the point of a nauseous tummy but I figured that cheesy garlic bread and joining in a conversation when asked would help ease the flow of me speaking to Finns.
It worked.

My understanding is that there are many people in this knitting group but only a small handful actually attend.  The knitting group rotates homes each week for about 3 hours of chit chat and handicrafts.  Let me tell you, as a new mom - it was WONDERFUL to knit and not have a dog or baby tug on my yarn, step on me, puke on me, scream/hit at me...and in general - a few moments of silence was a nice touch too.

I was asked what were some major differences about Canada compared to living in Finland - since I've been here a year...and I learned a lot too.
Everybody spoke English or at least understood a good deal of it - so I wasn't too shy to speak or didn't feel the need to slow down.

The big thing (previously mentioned) that everybody noticed was that I knit quite slowly (I'm not very fast at knitting anyway - especially on double pointed needles!) - and HOW I knit.  Because I carry my working yarn in my right hand - it made all the world of a difference to them. 

Next week I plan on bringing home-made guacamole with nacho chips....or pita bread - whichever...and bringing some amigurumi books.  I unfortunately did not have any books with me or photos on my camera.  So!  Next week will be something for me to look forward to.

What did I do at the knitting group in terms of handicrafts?  I worked on my friend's sock- I'm in the "boring phase" of knitting in the round the length of the foot.  It's a self-striping purple color - I LOVE IT! SO pretty!
And I made myself a large, beautiful blue reflector.  I crocheted with Safran and the reflector stuff (like fishing line)....turned out great.  Looks like a coaster I guess...but this should help cars see me!

The difference between 18 and 21

What IS the difference between 18 and 21 years of age?
Well, in Finland - you can gamble on the machines in the super market and Hesburger as long as you're at least 15.  You have to be at least 18 to get in the small casino downtown...and to play Bingo (I think).

In terms of 18 and 21?
At aged 18 you're still in high school (they graduate at 19 typically) - and are not able to purchase alcohol above 20% until you are 21 years old.

Here in Finland, you can buy ciders (coolers in North American language) and beer in the grocery stores.  No problem. Yes they'll probably ID you if you look like a kid - but surprisingly enough - I have not been ID'd when purchasing alcohol here.  Anything stronger than beer or coolers are sold at the Alko, an alcohol store which is not open on Sundays...but grocery stores are.

I was only ID'd to buy a burger at Grilli 21 that one time...

Paviljonski & FLASH!

Today I went to the Paviljonski with some friends to check out the once-a-year farmer's market/handicraft market that's held outdoors.
Yes Pailjonski is like Pavillion (or at least I am assuming so)....last year I had gone inside for the handicraft fair and it was sooooooo crowded and I was quite cranky pushing the pram around. ANYWAY - this was held outdoors which made things MUCH easier.

There were many stands with knitted hats and gloves and some jewellery stands...but the one food item I saw a lot of was fried fish.  Finns do love seafood - as it's usually found in their own waters...very resourceful.
My friend Jessica suggested eating some fresh, fire smoked salmon with potatoes and onions....it was great! Unfortunately there won't be any photos as the husband is in London and has my camera.

So the second part of the subject heading is "FLASH!"  Well, after cruising around the market and picking up a slice of smoked ham (delicious beyond words) and some danishes (more like poulla - very thick/heavy baked goods)...I went downtown with a friend named Matti.
We walked around and chatted about Canada vs. Finland and as we were walking to Ekolo (organic/health food shop...and also has bulk snack foods beside it) - I saw an older man ...let's say 40's or more...quite tall....stand in front of a young girl and an elderly man resting on a bench and yell something quite loud in Finnish.
I instantly thought "Oh he's deaf...or drunk...or angry about something..."
I asked Matti what was being yelled as there was some discussion going on....turns out the man standing was flashing the people sitting on the bench.  And I don't mean the upper part of his chest either.
I instantly had a flashback to my high school graduation in which a fellow by the name of Daniel, dropped his certificate while accepting it from our principal and then mooning the Graduating class of 2004.
I did not see anything because I was sneaking out - as I was hungry.  Shame - I know.

The "Really don't want to ask but I'm curious" questions about Finland

Completely random and I'm sure some of you who read this are wondering...My answers will be based on my personal opinion and experiences - mostly from Jyv�skyl� - unless I read something otherwise.

1. Are drugs common in Finland?
1. Apparently in bigger cities - yes, drugs are common and a bit of an issue as there are some drugs that are stronger than heroine coming out.  I forget what they are called - but police are getting concerned in Helsinki (Finland's capital) because of un-known substances being shifted around. *Helsinki Times
2. Are there prostitutes in Finland?
1. I have no idea.  I haven't seen any in Jyv�skyl�.  There are a couple strip bars in town - the windows are covered very well and they don't open late at night.  HA- I guess that's where the business teams go for lunch meetings.  Bad joke for some - sorry.
1. Unlike Dartmouth, NS - where you saw a hooker/sex worker/prostitute fairly regularly in the North End area, no I haven't seen them.  I also don't go out late at night - not out of fear of the dark or safety - but because V�in� wakes up occasionally before I get to bed.
3. What is rent like and what is typically included?
1. Rent typically includes heat.  Electricity and water are separate fees.  Electricity for us was under 65 euros for 6 months - and I cooked about 3x a day everyday!  You can also pick out what kind of electricity you'd prefer to use (i.e. water or wind etc.)
2. Depends on who you rent from.  Personally our rent is on a fully-furnished flat, not directly downtown (about 30-40 minute walk away), sauna fees included and water too.  Our internet is free as the building is registered with the Elisa cable company - our modem fee was all we had to pay.
3. Water is charged PER person (including the baby) - as in a flat fee per person that is.
4. Is there a gay population in Finland?
1. There is some - but we don't see a lot of homosexual/lesbians here.  Maybe we walk by them and have no idea - because they're not as open as Haligonians.  We do NOT have a gay bar in Jyv�skyl� as far as I know.
5. Is gay marriage legal?
1. I believe "same gender partnership" is legal but not an official marriage.  I heard through a friend that she is leaving her church (you actually have to "check out" or be fined) because they are banning same-sex marriages.  Not entirely sure.
6. Are there many stay-at-home parents?
1. Yes it's really common because Kela benefits pays quite well for Finnish citizens and it's cheaper than going to day care.  Day care is not as ridiculously expensive as Canada - but still quite pricey.  And they have private day care too for an extra fee of course.  If you are a student or working - the commune is responsible to help you find a spot.
7. Is there a lot of stealing in Finland?
1. I haven't witnessed anything (while I have in Canada several times) - however if you do not lock your bike - say bye bye.  Bike theft is one of the top things that occur in Finland.
2. Yes there are cameras in the grocery stores and in the malls but I think its pretty common to steal small things any country really.
3. I do not steal - it's just a general statement!
8. What do you hate about Finland?
1. Not a lot really.  I dislike how some Finns (NOT ALL) can be so distant towards not just a foreigner but fellow locals.  In example - I was getting off the bus with the stroller and my son was facing out and the front wheels caught underneath the bus.  His face was a couple of inches shy of smashing into the pavement - had it not been for the stranger I was already talking to on the bus.  The other people behind me trying to get off were very upset because I was slowing down their day - none of them checked or asked if V�in� was alright.  They really can keep to themselves when it suits them.
9. Was it easy to enter the country?
1. Yes.  We did not have our resident permits yet - and had to take our passports to the local Police to get the permits applied.  
2. It was easier to enter Finland (no questions asked) with 2 large dogs - than it was to leave our own country (and the US section of the Halifax airport).
10. Are there a lot of smokers in Finland?
1. Smoking is quite common but thankfully there is NO smoking indoors.  Bus stops are common locations along with anywhere on the street.
2. (In NS - they are putting a ban on smoking within so many meters of the opening of a shop or hospital etc.  As well they're trying to ban people from smoking with a child, deemed under 16, in a vehicle.)  These laws are not in effect in Finland needless to say.
11. What laws are different?
1. I'm not a lawyer or a professional - but just observing the basics here's what I noticed:
1. If you're deemed guilty by the court - you can be stuck with your lawyer/court fees and the innocent party as well.
2. You can talk on a cell phone while driving (not supposed to - but there's no law against it).
3. You do not need to wear a bicycle helmet (on side walk or road) - it is recommended but no ticket will be issued.  (In NS a friend was charged $250 I think....at least $75 I remember).
4. Every Man's Land is a part of the law in which you can go onto anybody's property.  With the exception of work places/factories for example that have signs clearly stating not to enter or trespass.  In example you could go through someone's yard to get to a trail, pick berries or even camp out if you had to!  With respect to the other party - you must not harass them, damage or violate their property or steal (like from their vegetable garden).
5. No right turns on red!

Helsinki

Aside from a 10 month old with two teeth coming in quite fast - Helsinki is an amazing city and I'm glad I went.  Despite the cold weather and rain - it's very lovely and easy to walk around in.
I went into an indoor farmer's market and they sold many meats, vegetables and seafood.  One stand had "BEAR SALAMI - 15 EUROS/PIECE".....

There was so much to see and to do in Helsinki...and considering I've been in Jyv�skyl� since day one of moving here (385 days prior to the trip to Helsinki) - I was in awe of everything and truly felt like I was in New York.
There was a Louis Vuitton shop, a Guess store, Ben & Jerry's ice-cream store and various boutiques.

Then there was Stockmann.  Stockmann is a department store...when really it should be labelled a "mall".
It is 8 floors - and not small floors.  The kind of floors that require a  MAP to get around.
On the 8th floor is the food court....it's more like a walk-around restaurant.  There's tv screens listing what each station can cook and the cost.  The menu is listed in Finnish/Swedish and in English.
The 5th floor had children's toys and pet supplies.  I didn't see any pet supplies - but I didn't get a real chance to walk around as I was watching the clock constantly so I did not miss my train.  However, I did manage to change my son's diaper before we left and he was able to stretch out a bit as there was a medium-sized play-room - complete with a white shaggy rug!  It was so much fun and he made a little friend, named Elsa.  She kept trying to hug him and V�in� (like a real little man) crawled to his mama.
I didn't go to all the floors as the elevators were hard to catch!  There were about 4-6 of them but people that are able to take the escalator - took the elevator instead.  Can't really blame them as it is a bit faster, however, those that need the elevator (cough cough - people with babies and seniors) - are often left in the dust.

I found English books!  WAHOO! My goodness they were ridiculously expensive, but I found 3 that I had really wanted for V�in�'s collection of books.  So it was worth it.  The Stockmann book store was separate from the department store (just across the street from it) and also was several floors.  FYI the 3rd floor has hobby books and the bottom has novels and kids books.

Helsinki also has trams on top of buses too.  The trams are free for people with a pram/stroller, which is nice because they're very quick and on time.  They have a great system that you use your travel card to pay - you just select where you are going to and it deducts from your travel card.  OR you can send a text message to a certain number and your travel fee is listed on your cell phone bill.  I think this is great because I hate withdrawing 20 Euros for a bit of change to board the bus.  I'm not sure how much it costs per trip - it depends where you are going.

The train ride back was just as tiring as on the way to Helsinki because of these darn teeth.  However, there was much more space.  On the way we lucked out and got a business class seat.  If I didn't have the pram folded up beside me - it would've been great.  Apparently business class seats get free wireless internet on the train.
On the way back however - I had purchased my ticket in person, and the lady got me a spacious seat...no seats in front of me - just a big area for a wheel chair and a stroller.  GREAT!  So I didn't even have to fold it up!
There was a police officer on the train the whole time walking back and forth like he was on the hunt.  Well I was nervous, V�in� was in amazement and I had texted my husband informing him of the cop.  His response was simple: "Don't be worried unless he's looking for you."
Well - if there IS a killer on the train - what good will that do?!  I wonder if it's because it was a late night train (arriving in Jyv�skyl� around 11:30pm) - that's why he was there?  No idea.  I'm glad he was though because a drunk/beefy/big/bald guy was talking to V�in� when we first boarded - and that was fine - he wasn't too drunk at that point....and my brave little 10-month old stared him down and terrified him (I'm serious)....but later on he came on our wagon and asked around for smokes.
Just to be safe - I'd rather have the cop sitting in my wagon.  That and I was praying for patience during the last 1 hour-1hour/half of the ride....that's when the screaming didn't stop.

I'm hoping to go back again in the spring for a day trip with a girlfriend here...aka no children and no husbands.

Some more random things about Finland

Some other things I forgot to mention in the first posting (or you may have forgotten over the last year).  I also apologize if some these are repeated from the last post:

1. Yes we have a McDonald's and a Subway.  We also have a Hesburger which originates from Turku (bigger city - no relation to Turkey) and it's more popular.  We have 2 Hesburgers close to each other and only 1 Subway and 1 McDonald's.
2. Taxes are included in the prices of everything - which is handy.
3. Kela is the health and social benefits program here.  If you are pregnant and having the baby in Finland (or with a Finnish connection i.e. parents of the child) - you qualify for a maternity box.  The maternity box contains a lot of clothing, some cloth diapers, nursing pads, information, a winter suit...the list goes on.  And most people use the box as a make-shift crib until they settle in their new home or pick a crib for their baby.  I did not qualify for this as I had to be here for the 4 month pre-natal check up.
4. Bus passes are quite expensive and they have a scanner - so you just press your pass onto the scanner and it beeps.  Similar system in Hong Kong in case you're wondering...
5. They do not have student bus passes.
6. Some things you can find (like in North America) - although usually only sold in the big stores and quite expensive:
1. Kraft Mac and Cheese
2. Jiff Peanut butter
3. Newman's salad dressing
4. Lucky Charms
5. Pringles (this is found at all shops) in various flavours: Original, Wasabi, Grill etc.
6. Heineken
7. Pepsi, Coke, 7 UP, Sprite, Fanta (orange pop)
7. Things I have not been able to find:
1. REAL maple syrup...there's stuff here that says its real - but it's kind of watery.  DO NOT buy the Pirkka (store brand - K Market) stuff...it's so watery.
2. Not even "fake maple syrup" like Aunt Jemima
3. Crunchy peanut butter
4. Sushi in a restaurant in Jyv�skyl� (it is possible it's sold at some Mongolian restaurant - I have yet to eat there).  There's some sushi in the S Market downtown beneath Sokos...but it's so-so.
5. The blue floss keys...for those with braces - you know what I mean.  The blue loops that you tie your floss onto so you can floss your teeth a little faster and easier.
6. Old Spice antiperspirant for the husband...he's been using "Rexona" which seems to be a standard brand here.  However, it gives my husband rashes...and he's normally not allergic to anything!
7. Intuition razor blades.  Thankfully I don't use my razor THAT much that I can't wait until I go home.  They have lots of disposable razors and electric ones.
8. George Foreman grill....I miss mine.  Enough said.  ** I found one at the used store!!!
9. There is NO Tim Hortons, Star Bucks, Second Cup or Pete's Frootique here.  Sorry folks.
8. In the Chinese restaurants here - you will NOT find:
1. Egg rolls
2. Spring Rolls
3. Wonton Soup
4. Pot Stickers/pan-fried dumplings
5. Dim Sum
9. Whenever you order a stir-fry that says "vegetables" - be prepared for 1/2 your platter to be filled with onions.  Finns seem to love onions - a lot.
10. You do not tip when eating out.
11. Internet comes free in some buildings (cable internet) - so you just have to pay for your modem.  It's reasonably fast....
12. If you have a permanent job - your employer may pay up to 3 months of full salary while you're on maternity leave then it dwindles down to 60% the remaining 9 months (if not lower - depends on your employer).  In NS - it's 60% throughout the whole 12 months of your maternity leave.  60% is the minimum required and some employers (i.e. military) will pay more than that.
13. If you're used to having your clothes washed then dried in a tumble dryer - you probably won't have any luck here.  Dryers are very rare here - because they are somewhat useless with the air being so dry here - clothes dry very quickly!  On hot summer days, I was able to hang a load of laundry outside off my balcony - and it would be dry in two hours maximum!
14. Cloth diapers are very common here.  Some people do use disposables (we use them at night and whenever we go out) - but for the most part cloth is in!  
15. As long as it's not colder than -10*C...parents often put their children in their pram/stroller and onto the balcony or outside in the yard and let them nap outside.  The cooler air soothes the baby (while bundled up) and they often get a longer nap than inside!
16. I've recently been to the Indian restaurant downtown (it's the only one here in Jyv�skyl� by the train station) - and their food is delightful.  Mango lassi drinks are amazing and V�in� enjoys them a lot.
17. Domestic violence is very common here in Finland.  But it's very "hush hush"- so people don't discuss it.  It is ILLEGAL to harm or hit a child (of any age).  Most common situations for domestic violence is alcohol.  The female is drunk and says things and then the male says things back while being drunk...you get my drift.  
18. Beauty products/health - I'm not the queen of fashion (who is when you're an average-everyday mom?) - but for those that are die-hard must-have its....here's a brief list of what I've seen sold downtown:
1. MAX Factor make up
2. Revlon
3. Garnier
4. Lumene (I personally love their body butter/moisturizer - not greasy at all and smells lovely)
5. Colgate tooth paste and mouth wash *** NO CREST***
6. Pepsodent seems to be the norm for dental products
7. Freeman (Barefoot, facial products, body lotions etc.) - I LOVE their Revitalizing Foot balm: lemon/sage...not greasy and not thick!
8. MAC (I think)
9.  :( No Noxzema
10. Clearasil
19. They do sell Nike, Addidas, Reebok, New Balance sneakers
20. Columbia is not as big of a brand here from what I've seen...

Things You May or May Not Know about Finland...

Of course - in no particular order.....some questions are from my FB friends which will be noted with a "(FB)" listed after the question.  Most are things I've been asked in the past or thought of myself....
(RR) = Rogers Rep - I actually had a lengthy conversation with one about Finland as I was changing my address
(F/F) = Family/friends
(FB) = Facebook

1. What are Finnish people like? (RR)
1. In general they keep to themselves and are very out-going and fit.  They do enjoy drinking (it's an actual "problem" in Finland) and going to saunas and having parties.  
2. Our friends are awesome (and I'm not just saying that) and have been very supportive as we've been trying to register our marriage (finally it's done) ,get our security deposit back from the previous landlord (still working on that), have a baby (not a new one - just referring to V�in�), meet other English-speaking people, helped us clean and move- just awesome people really!!!!  We couldn't ask for better friends in a new-to-us country!  HUGE THANKS!
2. Are there English labels on things you buy? (FB)
1. Yes and no.  For example a bottle of shampoo may have an English label on the front but if you look on the back - it's in Finnish, Danish, Norweigan and/or German.  Sometimes they say "GB" (Great Britain - because they are the only country in the world that speak English) or "IR" - for Ireland.  SO if you don't know how to wash your hair or cook basic things - you may want to pick up a dictionary, or read it in English before visiting. :-)
3. What's the currency you use there?  Is it American dollars? (FB)
1. No - it's not American currency here.  I'm in Europe - and Finland IS part of the European Union -so we use Euros.
4. Do they have Canadian beer? (FB)
1. No we haven't seen Canadian beer.  I'm also the worst person to ask as I don't drink beer.  However we have seen Heineken (I know - not Canadian). And maybe the odd Budweiser...is that Canadian?  Ugh.
5. Are cell phones much cheaper than North America? (RR)
1. Yes.  Where do I start?!  Monthly access fee = 6 Euro Cents (depends on your plan - these figures are based on mine)....1 minute or text message = 6 Euro Cents (it's cheaper to callers of the same company)....4 E. cents/minute to call Canada....if the phone bill has not reached 10 Euros per month - then it's delayed until it does (with a maximum of 2 months delay) and then you pay whatever is on your bill.  It's to save paper....and you ARE NOT CHARGED INTEREST.  So one of my bills (including a 20 minute phone call to Canada) over a span of 3 months was under 15 Euros.  The most I've ever paid was 32 Euros - and that was because I was doing an excessive amount of texting - trying to plan things while Tim was away.
6. Is it safe? (F/F)
1. Incredibly safe.  We live in a university town of about 80,000 and the most that happens are drunken brawls and stolen bikes and some graffiti.  We are able to walk ANY time of the day without a single worry.  It's a nice feeling....really nice.
7. What kind of food do Finns eat? (F/F)
1. Lots of stews, fish, berries, reindeer, other game meat - really Finns are very resourceful.  Because you can go almost anywhere you want (unless it specifies to not enter) - you can find lots of berries in the woods etc.  They're not the type to waste things which is passed down from their parents and older relatives as Finns have experienced a war in the 50's...things were rationed and very tight back then.
2. Lots of baked goods...both savoury and sweet!
3. Chocolate - it's insane how much they can eat.
4. Coffee - it's very Finnish.
8. How do you say where you are living? (F/F)
1. Jyv�skyl� = YOU-vask-you-la  (emphasis on the first syllable) 
9. How do you say V�in�'s name? (F/F)
1. VII-neu (like neuf (9) in French without the F)
10. What languages are spoken in Finland?
1. Finnish is the primary language and Swedish in the secondary language.  English is common in younger people or people in university.
11. What kind of music do they have there? (FB)
1. They're big on heavy metal/screaming music as I call it.  
12. What kind of clothes do they wear?
1. Depends on what crowd you're with.  I'm in the average kind of person crowd.  But there is a huge heavy metal/gothic atmosphere in Finland - so you will see many men with long hair, dyed black, buzzed, mohawk, and wearing chains, platform boots etc.  There's barely any "thug" stylists here and some girls do dress quite skimpy....
13. What's a sauna?
1. A sauna is very common in Finland as there are NO BATH TUBS here....maybe in the hotel but I doubt it.  A sauna is a room in a flat or a house or separate from the home - and it's steamy.  Like 80-100*C steamy.....and yes you go in NAKED.  Completely naked with your family or the males go together and then the females (or vice verca).  It's relaxing but a bit sweaty.  The crazy people/Finns go in the winter and then jump into a frozen lake (with a hole cut out) then they roll into the snow...and then GO BACK IN.  I have yet to do this.  I don't know if I would.
2. If you go in a sauna - you do sit on a towel - for those of you that are concerned about germs etc.
3. Do not wear glasses while in the sauna.  It is pointless.  You won't be able to see (especially if there are many people in the sauna with you) and they might melt.  Mine are plastic frames - hence why I know about the melting.
4. Do not wear pure gold jewellery - it WILL MELT and BURN your skin and leave marks.  This is from personal experience if you haven't figured it out yet.
14. What do Finns like to do? (FB)
1. We see many people run or walk....very fit people.
2. They like to go to the sauna.
3. Drink...Tim's been out with a group of Finnish guys who love to drink and have a good time - and he said "I think they can out-drink a Newf...my glass was never empty!"
4. Go to the cottage (usually passed down through the family).
5. Spend time with their family.  And I don't say this as a "filler" but because it's true.  Tim and I both found in North America - people do not spend that much time with their families.  But here in Finland it is encouraged by the amount of holidays they have and the amount of playgrounds there are.  There are 2 small ones within steps of our back/front doors...and 2 larger ones within 7-10 minutes from our door.
6. Text or talk on the phone.   Finns are labelled as "quiet people" in general - however because house phones are rare like dinosaurs - everybody has a cell phone!
7. Lots of sports - like running, walking, skiing, skating...everything!  LOTS of biking too.
15. What's the health care like?
1. Wonderful so far! I have yet to book an appointment with a doctor for personal reasons (other than pregnancy-related while pregnant with V�in�) - but I'm sure it would be fine.
2. Children health care is awesome.  The nurses are wonderful with V�in� and so polite and eager to help us out with ANY question we may have.
3. We had to take V�in� to the emergency on a Friday night for an abscess and they were FAST and efficient with diagnosing him and getting him comfortable.
4. In terms of the PHARMACY - you wait for your prescription when you place it.  Your cashier/pharmacist retrieves your medication immediately and you don't sit back down or have to find something to do for 20-30 minutes.  The pharmacists are very knowledgeable and if they don't speak English - they get someone for you that can.  
16. What was giving birth like in Finland? (FB)
1. As I have never given birth before - I'd have to say this was also great (aside from the pain).  
2. Yes they have epidurals, PCB (perennial cervical block) and aqua blisters for pain relief.  Not all hospitals have a water-birth option.
3. The mid-wives do the delivery, the doctor provides the anesthetic and comes in only if there are any complications.
4. After giving birth the baby is put at your breast immediately for scent and to encourage breast-feeding.  It's really popular here and encouraged strongly.  Then he or she is cleaned up and you get a shower and go to your room.  Prior to labour I thought this was gross as V�in� would be covered in "gunk" - however, I now realize it's created a stronger bond between us and he immediately latched on and grabbed Tim's finger too.  A moment I'll cherish forever.
5. A HUGE meal is given to you and your spouse/partner after you finish labour.  I couldn't eat it all - but it was great.  Fresh giant grapes, sandwich materials, yogurt, milk, juice and lots of water.  I kind of wish I had the energy to make myself a lunch like that EVERY DAY! :P
17. How long of a flight is it? (F/F)
1. We flew to New York (1.5 hours from Halifax) and then 7 hours from NY to Helsinki.  Then we took a train from Helsinki to Jyv�skyl� - which was about 3 hours long.
18. Will you learn Finnish?
1. I would LOVE to!  Finns are fairly quiet and keep to themselves - but I would love to have a complete Finnish conversation some time with strangers that stop and want to know stuff about V�in� or Canada.  
2. A little boy stopped my friend today and asked her why I wasn't talking in Finnish...I was so sad I couldn't respond!
3. Yes Tim has taken a course in basic Finnish and really enjoyed it.  I'm hoping to take one as well - once V�in� is a bit older and not so dependent on me.
19. What's the school system like?
1. Amazing.  They learn English in grade 3!  They learn a new language every 2 years I think? I can't remember the specifics but some languages they can learn are: English, French, Chinese, Estonian, Russian, German, Swedish....I think that's all of them?
2. The UK is considering switching their education system to that of Finland.
3. They go from the age of 7 until the age of 19.
4. They rank top in math and maybe science too (or one of the top) in all the world.
5. They call their teachers by their first name so there is a more relaxed atmosphere.
6. They don't wear their shoes inside - so there is a relaxed atmosphere.
20. Is it hard to make friends there?
1. I thought it would be because of the language barrier.  But it is going pretty well.  We often meet friends through other friends.
2. There is also a multi-cultural gathering once a month at the local play ground too which helps.
21. What is it hard to bring the dogs into Finland? (FB)
1. Nope.  We were limited to 2 animals per person and there was no quarantine involved as they were travelling with us.  
2. Both dogs had to be up-to-date on their shots and have the microchip installed.
22. What are your favourite things about Finland? (FB)
1. I love the clear air (this summer was un-usually humid we've been told - but even still it wasn't as bad as NS)...I rarely use an inhaler these days!
2. I love the safety and the feeling of security.
3. The food is great and there's always something going on downtown on nice days - like street performers...always somebody different!
4. We had a white Christmas last year - that was a first for us in a very long time!
5. The fact that EVERYTHING has the taxes included in the prices!!  No need to do extra math :P.
23. What's the most unusual thing to happen to you? (FB)
1. I've had random Finnish drunks come up and talk to me in broad day light and a guy have a drunk conversation with V�in�.  His response was yelling at him and giving him dirty looks - then eventually laughing...
2. A Jehovah Witness put a "business card" in my pram while I was shopping for yarn....the pram was outside where I could see it and V�in� was in my arms...
3. It took forever to register our marriage....
4. I'm sure there will be more things - I usually keep to myself. LOL
24. Will V�in� have automatic Finnish Citizenship because he was born in Finland?  Can he have dual citizenship? (FB)
1. No for automatic Finnish. We have to apply for a Finnish Citizenship for him because the Canadian one is automatic as Tim and I are both Canadians.  If V�in� did not have automatic Canadian Citizenship - then yes - he'd have auto-Finnish Citizenship from our understanding.  
2. We are pretty sure he can have dual citizenship if we apply for the Finnish one.
25. Will you guys apply for Finnish Citizenship? (FB)
1. Possibly!
26. What are the prices like?
1. Lots of things here are very good quality and can be pricey.
2. I shop at the 2nd Hand Stores a lot - for clothing, DVDS,  knick-knacks around the home etc.
3. Food is about the same.
27. What are some experiences you've had in Finland that's different than Canada?
1. You weigh your own veggies/fruits in the grocery store and print a price sticker.
2. You bag your own groceries and have to bring your own bags (or pay for plastic or biodegradable ones).
3. Taxes are included in the prices of everything - restaurants, groceries, etc.
4. You can pick where you sit and pay for that seat at the movie theater.
5. The vet bill is much cheaper (excluding conversion of currencies) - but the fancy dog food (vet) is more expensive.
6. In Helsinki (and some other bigger cities), a caregiver and their child in a stroller/pram get on the buses for free.  In Jyv�skyl� - it's 3 Euros (recently went up 10 cents).  The transfer is good for exactly 1 hour (they print the time on them too).
7. Swam in a lake with fish in it...
8. In the summer (not so much now) - the sun stays up pretty much 24 hours a day.
9. In November it's quite dark and dreary....
10. Various holidays!!  Some for poets....some for political things....some for Religious things...Mother's Day - everything was closed....
28. What's the banking system like? (FB)
1. You get issued a Visa Electron card (CHIP card) and you either sign or put your pin and you can use this card online on some sites.  
2. You get issued a PIN# - if you forget it - they mail you a new one.  You cannot change it at the bank.
3. To do internet banking you sign in with your user ID# and your 4-digit password (different than your PIN).  Then you have a key card and whatever number populates on the screen - you find it on your key card and put the corresponding code beside it online.  You can only use a key card # once then you need to be issued another.
29. What do you miss about Canada?
1. Family/friends/my cats!
2. Being able to speak in English and read all labels.
3. Walmart....
4. Dollarama
30. Do they use the same plugs as we do? (FB)
1. Nope!  We have to find plug converters and they do NOT sell them here because electricians can do it for a fee....

**Anything else? feel free to send me a message!

Guilty!

Did you know that in Finland - if you are taken to court - and you are deemed guilty...that you are not only expected to pay out your fees but the innocent parties as well? Any lawyer fees, court fees etc. can be claimed to be paid by YOU - as long as you're guilty.

Why do I know this?  I have a friend who is a lawyer and I was asking her questions in regards to a personal issue we have with someone returning funds to us (we'll leave it at that).
So typically there is a 70-80 Euros court fee for them to serve the documents to the other party/person and they have so long to present you a payment.  If that doesn't settle it - then boom - court time.

Our first Finniversary is coming up (cool term eh? I made it up)  So I'll be posting random facts that I can remember based on our experiences here.

It's been awhile

Sorry for the delay.

Still not married in Finland.  We have to send our document to the Finnish Embassy in Ottawa for them to certify the stamp made by the Ministry of F.A. is legitimate and "not made by someone at the super market."

The Rally is coming soon to Jyv�skyl�....and it's held near Kortepohja - should be fun.  I don't really watch sports or cars - so I'll be staying close to home.

While having guests over for supper tonight - I made a beef stir-fry...with lots of vegetables and a fruit cobbler.  I was worried the meat would be dry or the rice would be dry...or I over baked the fruit cobbler but everything turned out just fine.  I had wanted to make a roast chicken dinner - but often have difficulties finding a raw, whole chicken.  They're not in the shops every day...and I never make note of when they are in.
Next time - I will get one and freeze it.  According to one of my guests he said that they're very uncommon in Finland and that the chicken fillet and marinated meats are what usually sell first.

It's coming close to my Finniversary..........definitely going to have to have a party of sorts.

Tomorrow's THE day

Tomorrow is THE day in which we'll be going to the Mastraati (I apologize for my horrible Finnish spelling) and telling them that yes, we are married...and have been married since February 2007.
For those that are new to my blog - welcome and here's the quickest version of why we need to prove our marriage.

My husband and I are both Canadian and came here in August of 2009 for him to do his doctoral program (research etc.).  I was pregnant and was advised by the Mastraati that we must prove our marriage because we were married outside of Finland.  I thought our passports were good enough as they are a Canadian Government issued document (also "issued" by the Queen if we want to be specific) - however it doesn't bear my maiden name on it.  Ugh.
So that was back in October and we had our marriage documents in storage in Nova Scotia.  Thankfully my parents don't live far from the storage location so they dug around and found our things and mailed it to us.  It wasn't good enough for the Mastraati because it had to be signed and stamped by the Ministry of Foreign Affairs.  We sent it there and they sent it back because "it was the wrong form".
Fast forward to about April - we got everything sorted and re-sent to Ministry of Foreign Affairs to have it sent back stating that our Passport copies were to be officiated not by the Mastraati but by a Canadian Official.  Fast forward to May 9 - we sent everything and waited.
So after weeks of waiting (they finally got around to processing it around June 28th) we finally received our documents last week.
The problem is that my husband forgot to put my birth certificate in there.  However the "proper" form does state my name at birth - so hopefully that will be sufficient for them.
The actual reason for needing us to be "married" in Finland?  We gave birth to a son early November and there isn't a father listed.  We could apply for his Canadian Citizenship papers and Canadian Passport with me as sole guardian and parent - however, if anything happened to me - well that would be difficult for Tim to claim guardianship.  And it makes it harder (and more costly I believe) to have to add my husband's name later on.

For those that have never dealt with the Ministry of Foreign Affairs in Canada - they are a pain in the neck (very incredibly politely speaking).  Their site states to contact "the Embassy prior to contacting us".  Well - since it doesn't clearly state which Embassy to contact - we tried to contact them directly first by leaving a voice mail (2 business days they'll return your call is the message - this is not true - they don't return calls) and by sending a professional email (up to 7 business days to expect a response - also not true - they do not write back).
We gave up on their lack of response and guessed to contact the Canadian Embassy in Helsinki.  The person there, who knows us on first names basis (we've contacted them a lot about our problem), got a response in less than 12 hours.  HOW?
So if you ever have to deal with the Ministry of Foreign Affairs - good luck.

My son, V�in� and I, have missed out on a trip back to Canada in May and a trip to Greece coming up at the end of this month, while my husband attends and presents in some conferences.
It's quite frustrating as you can imagine because he is the first born grandchild on both sides of the family and I do miss home quite a bit.  I do call Finland home now - as we've been here for 11 months - but I still do not speak the language and we just moved to a new area (Kortepohja) so I'm still trying to learn my way around.
I can't even pronounce my street name.  Jeeze.

Oh and for those that are wondering - yes we probably could've went to Helsinki and dealt with their Mastraati there - however it may have been a waste of time as V�in� is born in Jyv�skyl� - they may have rejected our application to get things sorted out.

Here's hoping all goes well tomorrow

Moomins

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These are "Moomins" - they are not hippos.  They are Mommin Trolls...and they live a simple and happy life.

Moomins were created in Finland and are very popular in Japan.  Japanese tourists here LOVE Moomins.  Anyway - I was watching a Moomin DVD earlier (in Finnish) and noticed (out loud) that Moomin Papa does NOT sleep in the same bed as Moomin Mama.
HOWEVER!  Snork Maiden (she's a Moomin too with a gold anklet and a tuft of hair) shares a bed with Moomin.
When I asked my husband why (he's not Finnish - I just asked out loud I guess) - he suggests "Different generation."

Any Finn reading this - can you explain why two married Moomins are not sharing a bed but the son and his girl friend can?

Slightly confused.

Our experience at the Vet's (part 1 &2)

This was over a week ago but I just noticed that Facebook has been updating my Learning about Finland blog recently. It's been a couple months and I was starting to slack off on this blog because of the lack of auto-updates.

Anyhow. As my FB friends are aware, my 2 1/2 year old Loki (husky/lab/mutt) mix had 2 ticks. One in the front of his leg and one on the hind leg, inner thigh.
We thought - no problem - we'll haul them out with tweezers and the "tick bar". Loki is a genius dog and sometimes a little dumb. He tried pulling them out himself and ended up killing them. So because they were dead and not feeding off him (aka getting bigger) we were stuck with two dead ticks in his skin that could not be pulled out.
We referred to a friend or two and they suggested letting it sit out for a bit and the skin will naturally push out the ticks. This happened to our other dog, Blue (7 y/o border collie/lab) near his eye and we thought - fabulous!
Loki - here's the dumb part - continued to try and pry out the ticks that he killed and created an abscess in both spots. Then one of them popped and he continued to pick and created a wound so deep we could see deep into the flesh.

So off to the vet we go. First I called to book an appointment and for some reason - my phone keeps hanging up on people. Finally I book an appointment and we get there and wait in the room and it's a lovely little vet office not far from our place. About 10 minutes walk.
The vet does speak English and she ASKED if she could touch Loki to see the cuts. I was impressed. Most vets just snap on the gloves and get to it. Loki's a friendly dog - just so you know....but it's kind that the vet asked anyway.
After assessing him quickly (no thermometer required!) she provided some cleaning products, a cone and some antibiotics. She stated the ointment was honey-based and that he would not eat it. Loki proved her wrong. He LOVED it.
She then said the pills were tasty and that we wouldn't need food to cover them up....she was wrong. Loki hates medicine and Tim has to drop it down his throat (also pry open his mouth and teeth).....

So all in all - a great experience.

Then we had to go back. He's not fully healed and will still pick at it - given the chance (we don't use the cone while walking him - he refuses to pee or poo)....and had finished his medication.
I tried to call but the lady couldn't hear me and clearly did not understand English.

So I just popped in and the vet was great and remembered Loki's name and we paid for our medicine and left. I offered him a cookie (marrow treat) and he gulped that down and the vet said "Oh Lokiiiiiiiiiiii - I have a cookie for you"....well wasn't he excited.
She reached into a tin and pulled out a handful of dog food and put it down on the floor. One sniff and he was dragging me out the door.
The vet said, "Oh - I guess you knew I was tricking you into eating dog food."

(Yeah - no kidding. Don't lie to my dog - ha.) - were my thoughts I silently thought.

2nd Hand Shop!

So the "flea market" as I have been calling it....near our flat is actually a Second Hand Shop.

So I took my hubby and baby to the Second Hand Shop that's open 6 days a week down the road from our flat and this time I made sure to bring a re-usable grocery bag!
We lucked out and found my little guy 3 wooden pegged puzzles....you know the really old ones from when you were a kid and your parents too probably. They were under 5 Euros each - so I was thrilled at such a great find...considering one I purchased for a gift (a more updated version) was over 11 Euros!

I also found a book that was about being Cheap. Well it's a fun book - things you can do to save money and whatnot. I finished reading it and think it's awesome.

While looking around I noticed one major thing. There's tonnes of used stuff and a little stand with "new packaged stuff" like things for your nails...but there was nothing truly handmade. There was the odd piece of baby clothing but it was used and fuzzy and just not "mine". Yes it makes sense as it's a 2nd hand shop - however...it'd be nice to have something crafty eh?

I went to pay for our lovely wooden puzzles and book and the cashier chatted me up asking where I was from. I told him a bit about myself and asked him how I go about selling things there.
It's so easy! It's 22 Euros a week (they're open 6 days a week) for a table or 28 Euros for a table and a rack if you have clothing to hang....and they give the price tags with the number of your table. You pay the fee and put the stuff out and they give you the money. There is 0 commission.
So I'm going to try and make as much as I can and try it out.

Here's their website (in English) and if you click on the Finnish flag - you can see a portion of what it looks like inside.

Crafty

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Flea market!

I decided to go check out the local flea market near where we live and I'm so glad I did.
I had brought V�in� with me and as he was wrapped to me - I'm glad it's not far!

When I walked in - I didn't know what to expect. The one thing I did know is that there are no entrance fees like in NS. When I asked our friends about it - they thought I was quite odd in asking how much the door-fee was. They couldn't figure out why one would pay to look at things that you may or may not buy! Such lovely common sense!

Moving on...when you go inside there's tables and racks arranged in aisles and that's great. Each item is tagged with a price, size (if applicable) and a code number. That code number is assigned to the table or rack it's from and determine who is the person selling the item.
They even have baskets and shopping carts! The larger items like furniture and washing machines were in the very back of the warehouse and everything else was in the center.

When you pay - here's my favourite part - you can pay with debit! WAHOO! Or credit cards! YAY!

There weren't any food vendors - which is kind of nice because I end up porking out even more...

So here's what I scored for a total of 34E:
-4 pull up cloth diapers (look super clean and brand new!)
-1 board book for V�in� about a dog named Tim (purely coincidence!) who teaches you basic words in Finnish
-1 Thai cook book in English
-a seat for a regular toilet for V�in� (so he doesn't fall in) - it's blue and sturdy looking, unlike some of the things I've seen downtown
- 2 H&M sweaters for me that also look very new (one was 1/2 price down to 1 Euro!!!)
- 2 t-shirts (my summer clothing is kind of low....as I was always working indoors during the summer - so now I can finally expand cheaply!)

There's loads there and I'm sure they re-stock often...I'm surprised I didn't see a sewing machine. I've decided that I would like one for when the landlords take their furnishings back to their future home (after our contract is up) yet I don't want to pay an arm and a leg for it either.

I'll definitely be visiting again. It's open 6 days a week and all year long...yup - I've fallen in love.